“We subjected each relation to this test — was it selfish or not?” Page…

“We subjected each relation to this test — was it selfish or not?” Page 69 — I found this question very important in my understanding my immaturity with respect to relationships as I wrote my fourth step. To be freed from selfishness required I acknowledge it. And then I needed to admit it in step five, and begin to grow out of it with steps six and seven. I often use this same question in spot-checking myself. In each current relationship, regardless its type, am I being selfish? Or am I actually giving to the person with whom I am connecting? Healthy relationships benefit both me and the other. Am I being selfish today?

Help one; save two. Happy Thursday!